Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most interesting things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his best-selling book, "How to win friends and influence people" writes about the simple power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.
Have you ever been to a party and you've been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that twenty percent of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you are a guy and ask careful questions from a lady, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you're a lady and want to stroke a guy's ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?
8. What was the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman just for a day, what would you do with your day and why?
13. When you meet someone for the first time and you do not like them what would you normally do?
14. What is more important to you in a woman - good looks or intelligence?
And now let's get a little risqu! You may have to have a few drinks before asking some of these questions!
15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so did you get caught?
16. What's the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you on sexual the most and why?
19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?
20. Have you ever been caught playing with yourself? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?
21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?
Dale Carnegie in his best-selling book, "How to win friends and influence people" writes about the simple power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.
Have you ever been to a party and you've been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting - funny that! You probably did less that twenty percent of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you are a guy and ask careful questions from a lady, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you're a lady and want to stroke a guy's ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?
8. What was the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman just for a day, what would you do with your day and why?
13. When you meet someone for the first time and you do not like them what would you normally do?
14. What is more important to you in a woman - good looks or intelligence?
And now let's get a little risqu! You may have to have a few drinks before asking some of these questions!
15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so did you get caught?
16. What's the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you on sexual the most and why?
19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?
20. Have you ever been caught playing with yourself? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?
21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?
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