Monday, November 30, 2009

The Formula For A Successful Relationship

By Matt Conley

How do you setup a relationship for success? The formula is really very simple. In order for couples to have a healthy relationship they must remember that there are stages needed in order to develop and nurture a good relationship that will stand the test of time.

Anyone can build a solid relationship if they're willing to work at it. When you are with your partner, you need to keep an open mind about things and be aware of the different stages of a good relationship. When you're already aware of them, then it's just a matter of following them.

First you have to develop the trust. This is very important because all of the successful relationships will inevitably have trust as a major factor. You need to be able to get across your message and be honest about it in order to build your trust with one another.

Don't confuse this with saying yes to everything your partner has to say or agreeing to everything. Basically this means that you only have to develop a strong and honest so you can freely express yourself with each other.

Communication is what comes in second. Men will really have a difficult time in expressing themselves through their women but it doesn't really have to be this way. In reality, if you properly communicate your thoughts, your relationship is sure enough to be headed in the right direction.

A healthy relationship will rely on your ability to communicate with your partner. The main thing for having a good communication is being able to listen, feel and understand what your partner is going through.

Third stage is affection. This is another part in a relationship that men are having some problems. The reason is because that men feel that they are losing some of their macho look when they show any kind of affection towards their partner. But this kind of reasoning is a huge mistake.

What men doesn't know is that women love it when they show affection. Men can show affection in little things like kissing them when they're not asking for it, or greeting them with a warm hug when they are tired after a hard day at work.

There you have it. All you have to remember is these 3 stages to developing a good relationship. This is not going to be perfect overnight because you really have to give and take in a relationship to make it work to success.

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