Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Does An Unhealthy Mind And Body Mean You Have A Bad Relationship?

By Mike Rollins

Having an unhealthy body due to no exercise and poor eating habits can alter your life in many ways. Can it also affect your love life?

When you start a relationship with someone, you want it to last as long as possible. Establishing a healthy relationship can help you accomplish that. In order to have a strong relationship with somebody, you want to possess a healthy mind and body.

How do you make a relationship healthy? A healthy mind is when you have secure self-esteem and confidence about who you are and what you desire out of life. A healthy mind gives you independence so that you believe in yourself to get things done and do not become to dependent on your mate.

An unhealthy mind is when you have very little self-esteem and self-confidence. The lines of communicating become absent because you recede into your own world and just look to your mate for direction in your life, which puts a burden on your lover.

A healthy body, simply put, is when you take care of yourself. You make an effort to sustain a healthy weight and you care about your appearance and how you feel on a day-to-day basis. You don't do anything that would induce damage to your body over time.

You exercise on a daily basis to keep your heart in top condition and eat a sensible diet. Your attitude remains positive which makes your mate desire to spend time with you.

An unhealthy body is when you do not care enough about yourself to take care of your body. You smoke and drink more than you should and let yourself go. You eat junk food frequently and your waist is inflating.

Since you do not care about yourself, you do not try to work out or do things that would keep your heart strong. Your mental attitude is bad, making your relationship collapse because your mate no longer wishes to spend any time with you. You can not fault him or her because if you can not even love yourself, why should your partner?

Once your mind and body are in sync with each other, you can acquire a positive attitude, which keeps the line of communication going with your mate. It lets you to listen to them and helps you support them if they need it. You are more likely to do whatever it takes to keep your relationship in first-rate shape so that it continues to mature.

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