Friday, January 22, 2010

Tips To get Ex Back

By Melissa Potter

Do you want to get your love of your life back? Here's some tips to win your ex back. Breaking up could be one of the worst things that can happen to you. Sometime these events are learning situations which can help you become more mature and responsible and being able to manage emotions stress in life.

One of the first things you must do is control yourself and your emotions. Is your recent breakup with your former lover due to some misunderstanding which led you to getting very angry? If that's the case then it's time to learn humility by making an apology for your actions. It doesn't matter whose fault it was just remember sometimes you need to compromise in order to maintain your communication with your partner. Remember the two C's - Compromise and Communication.

Sometimes your ex-partner just needs a little space. Stop all forms of communication with her right now and let her have some for a couple days or week. If this relationship is worth saving the time away will bring you closer. Did you spent most of your time together in the past? If so your absence today and in the next few days should make her miss you and long for your company. After a short period she will initiate communication with you and request your presents.

That will lead you to the next stage to get an ex back; and that is to court her again. The fact that she fell in love with you the first time around, making her love you should come easier for you considering the fact that you have already known her as well as her strengths and weaknesses. Think of the ways that made her fall for you and say yes to your relationship. Do those things and become the person she fell in love with. Additionally, make yourself attractive to her. If she used to like the way you look, then put on some neat clothes that will make you look handsome or beautiful. If one of the things she like from you is your romantic letters, then send her those expressive and passionate letters. These things will make her fall in love with you again.

There are still many things you can do to get an ex back; the few useful tips mentioned here hopefully wii be helpful enough to win back the love of your life. Just remmember the two C's Compromise and Communication. If you do these two you will be in fine shape.

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