Monday, January 25, 2010

How Long Would You Wait Before Being Intimate If You're in A Relationship?

By Matt Fuller

It's often very hard to resist introducing intimacy into the early stages of a relationship when the attraction between two people is strong. It can be like trying to ply apart two magnetic forces that will inevitably join together.

As fantastic as having an intimate moment can be, it also has the ability to cloud your judgment. When intimacy becomes part of the issue, things start to look much different than when you first met.

If a newly forged couple come to the decision not to reach a commitment then that's okay as long as both people are fully aware of each others expectations. Becoming intimate too soon is a good way to spoil a great new relationship.

Even though modern times have made it some what more acceptable for women to be openly intimate or expressive, a recent publication and survey in a leading American women's magazine said that 77% of its respondents were intimate too early on in their relationships with the main motivation being to please their mans needs ahead of their own.

Whether the guy is in it for physical aspect or a long term relationship, he will more often still want a physical and emotional bond either way - generally speaking, but holding off until the right time will win the girl a huge amount of regard from her man in the long run.

For a woman to give in too easily to a mans demands can have consequences that jeopardize the longevity of a potential long term relationship. Whether you believe this is a one sided attitude or not, men will view a women's resistance to giving into intamacy too easily as a good sign of her character.

It's very common for people to be guided by how society will judge them. And who is society to judge you! During different phases of one's life it's pretty normal to be more intimate at certain times of your life. So we say - forget society and live your life on your own terms - and no body else's.

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