Sunday, January 17, 2010

My Ex Boyfriend Has Moved On - What Can I Do?

By Kim Sanchez

Do you still want to fix your relationship with your ex boyfriend but you think he has already moved on? You have to read on because this article is for you. I'm not here to judge you no matter what the reason for your break up may be. I'm here to give you hope.

Do you know that a lot of new relationships end up in a break up? I'm not trying to scare you because there is hope. Some of these break ups can still be fixed. Some of them can be salvaged if both parties are willing to make up.

First, I want to ask you: Has your boyfriend really moved on? If he is with another girl, this does not mean that he has moved on. In fact, he could be in a rebound relationship. This means that this new relationship will probably end up in a break up.

The reason why rebound relationships don't usually work is the fact that your boyfriend may have entered this relationship just to fill the gap of your broken relationship. This is definitely not a good start to a new relationship.

Once both of them realize that their relationship is just there to fill the gap, it will end up in a break up most likely. During this time, you have to be patient and not rush your ex boyfriend to talk to you. Do not force your ex boyfriend to do anything. Let him do things on his own once he makes up his mind.

What you really need to do is to take care of yourself during this time. You are single, so make sure that you are positive and attractive. Show everyone that you are okay with the break up and do not show any weaknesses.

You have to realize that you and your ex boyfriend had unforgettable memories together. This will not disappear just because he is in a new relationship. So leave yourself open to communication, but do not force your ex boyfriend to speak with you. Let him make up his own mind.

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