Monday, January 25, 2010

An Exciting Relationship - With Your Ex?

By Scott Forrester

Someone could ask what went wrong in several relationships that break up happens even if both have mutual understanding about their relationship status. Not all end up tragically and are still able to salvage of what is left of the relationship. And with that significance, how can some one restore a wrecked relationship.

It is obvious that for one to resolve the issue, the person must know the root cause of it. This means deeply analyzing the situation, how it happens so that a solution can be formulated.

Though it does not guarantee success and needs experimentation, it is still good than doing nothing at all. It needs basic knowledge in coping with a relationship and it is the same as how scientist resolve all problems. How can one effectively do the same as scientist?

First, the person must have a clear understanding of things and be able to recognize the issue because no problem can be resolved if it can not be identified. As they say, you cannot heal a wound that you cannot see.

With any break up scenario, one should not have the misconception that the problem is how to get back the ex but rather, what went wrong that made the other go astray in the first place? By looking at it in such a manner, the person trying to win back the ex, should have a clearer perspective of things because for one, the answer to how a person can win back an old paramour is dependent on the factors which made the other person walk away.

One may observe that though the relationship seems to be sound, it was gradually corroding from the inside and it all started because of lack of time with each other. It is very important to have constant communication in a relationship whatever the circumstances are. He or she must make an effort about having quality time to be with their partners without compromising each other's jobs.

Also, it does not mean that when he or she does not argue with each other, they are not properly addressing the issue. People should realize that it is important to spend time with their partners to keep the relationship happy and healthy. It is because by sticking to each other, they can address the needs and want of one another in the relationship.

The concepts mentioned above is not limited to guy and girl relationships but also applicable in a family and community. But taking family and community out of the issue, in a certain relationship the deprivation of needs can cause further issue such as searching for it elsewhere leading to temptations.

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