Saturday, January 23, 2010

This Is How To Save A Relationship

By Jeremy Sullivan

If you want to know how to save a relationship, know what is wrong first. Communicate with your partner and share your honest thoughts and feelings.

Both of your must work cooperatively for it to succeed. Its like a fifty fifty deal where both parties have to give their hundred percent and also be dedicated to save the relationship.

Whether people will happily except it or not, relationships require a lot of hard work, even good relationships. So, if you are trying to figure out how to save a relationship, you must be aware that this will take even more hard work.

Its quite common to forget your manners once in a relationship and this is a grave mistake. Be kind and considerate. Show your true concerns for his or her needs and concerns.

You must give your partner time. Time to work through their own issues as well as the ones created within the relationship. If your spouse does not take the time to deal with their own personal issues, you can be sure you will be dealing with them within the relationship.

Talk, but not about problems and past issues. This will make matters worse. Above all do not take your issues to a third person. But you can seek help from counselor and therapist. The game of "he said, she said" has ruined many relationships. Think about it and sorted it out within yourselves in the four walls.

Show each other love, honor and respect, and the mutual feeling. Even traditional marriage vows say the same. It is said in the bible "do unto others as you would have them do unto you". This is perhaps the most important to remember in saving your relationship. By following even some of these tips, you can save your relationship to a great extent.

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