Sunday, January 17, 2010

How Can I Make my Girlfriend Answer My Calls?

By Kim Sanchez

I have this friend with this very problem - his girlfriend won't answer any of his calls after their break up. Are you in the same situation as my friend? This is common after a break up, especially if it is the guy's fault. So, can you make your girlfriend pick up the phone after your break up?

I am going to give you several simple yet very effective tips that would help you make your ex girlfriend notice your phone calls and eventually, you.

First, if your ex girlfriend does not pick up the phone because she knows that it is you calling her, then try to use a different number. A number of a common friend with whom the two of you have a good relationship would do well. This way, she would not hang up on you and you could have your friend back you up in case she would hang up.

Second, when texting or sending written messages, try a little devious tactic. Make it appear that you are sending the message to another person but actually, it is really for her. But do not make it appear that you are sending it to another girl because basically, the main objective is to make her answer your call and accept you again.

Third, if you cannot make her answer your call then force her to do the call. If you know her that well then appeal to her kind or sympathetic nature. Ask for help and make it appear that you are really in dire need of it. You can make it sound jokingly as if things are really a matter of life and death. That way you will also know if she still loves you or not

Of course, it is best to assess every situation first before doing things. If she really would not answer your calls then you better meet with her in the flesh. That way, she would know your gesture is really sincere and that you are really sorry.

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