Friday, January 8, 2010

Advice on Relationships How to Keep a Woman Happy!

By James Lay

Do you know what to do to keep a woman happy? Here's some advice on relationships for men.

The first advice I have found on relationships is to always be you. Men sometimes put on a show, because they don't feel they are good enough to catch a beautiful, sexy woman. However a confident man is the sexiest beast around. Have you noticed that some of the ugliest guys have some of the most beautiful women? Why? It's because, they display a level of confidence that is more attractive than physical appearance.

Doing little things is the next thing you should do. From time to time this may mean offering to take her car for an oil change, or giving her a box of her favorite candies. Little things will add up in a relationship, most men think in terms of grand gestures, when it is the little things that add up.

Appreciate her: this is the next piece of advice on relationships. Never take her for granted. You should let her know that you value her.

Next and most obvious is, when you are with her, no looking at other woman. She will feel like you are comparing her to the woman you are looking at. The concept "the day I stop looking is the day I die" is not understood by woman. A woman's biological drive is for monogamy in a relationship. Woman are looking to raise children and for a partner who they can do it with. It's just their nature, they can't help it. That's how they are designed. So especially when she is around, minimize the ogling.

Next is to make her laugh. Men will have good looks at the top of the things they need in a woman; a sense of humor is on the top of a woman's list. So, if you want a lasting relationship keep her laughing.

Seek common interest is the next bit of advice on relationships. You may have gotten together because of a hobby or an interest; however it helps when you take an interest in her long standing passions. It may mean that you have to develop an appreciation for foreign film, if so do it. You will be one in a million when she knows you care about her interest.

Once you get the girl, it may seem like you don't have to try anymore - at least as far as grooming goes. And, while women are less sensitive to looks than men are, they still like a man who makes an attempt. So, shave on weekends. Keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men. In short, don't get sloppy just because you've landed her. You can unland her just as easily.

She will need to know that she can integrate you into her circle of friends and family. After the first few weeks of passion are over a man must be part of her larger life. So, impress her parents and make an effort to get along with her girlfriends. To validate her relationship choices a woman relies on her social network. Make an effort.

You should always be considerate of her feelings. Women are less stable than guys. Part of this is hormonal. When you are sensitive to her mood, you won't get on her bad side.

For our final piece of advice on relationships be open to trying new things. In the beginning of the relationship, everything is new, from the kind of dates you arrange to the way you kiss. However, after a while things become routine. Shake things up, if you find your relationship has fallen into a slump. Do something new. Doing this will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy.

So, there are ten bits of advice on relationships to keep your dating life strong. Look you guys, these things are common sense and the fact is I almost drove my sweetheart out of my life because I didn't pay attention to what I was doing. There is a book that woke me up written by T 'Dub' Jackson called "The Magic Of Making Up". After I read it and began applying his common sense suggestions, our love life turned around. Not only that all of my personal relationships, with friends, co-workers and my family have become much smother than they were before.

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