What makes a good match between two people who just met? Should you be looking for someone who's like you, or perhaps someone who's different. And when you go for someone different than you and get excited, should you worry from what the future holds and how these differences would eventually pan out? Before you go too far into a relationship, look to ask yourself these questions.
1: Is The Physical Attraction There? You might think they're a great person, but are you forcing yourself to be attracted to them? As much as we want to go beyond skin deep, physical attraction is vitally important in a relationship - and something you just can't fake.
2. Are you able to communicate effectively? In some cases the physical attraction is there and you are pushing forward with a relationship without stopping to ask yourself if this is really the type of person you can talk to and understand on a subtle level. While differences in style should not make you worry, you should look closely at the type of communication you have to make sure it is open and honest. If you don't feel it, it could present problems in the future.
3. Are your social needs similar? Couples usually engage in a common social life. Early in a relationship, it is important to look into your social needs to make sure they are somewhat similar to those of your partner. If you are very different in the types of activities and people you like to meet it can lead to a preference of experiencing your social life on your own and since relationships are all about sharing this could present problems in the future.
4. Do you believe in very different things? In some cases it won't be a problem but in others it can be very frustrating. You love your partner but are then introduced to a set of beliefs that is 180 degrees from yours. It could still work out for you, but it's always a good idea to check on religious and political principles to make sure you can stick around together for years to come.
5. Has your partner cheated on you? It is usually a good idea to open this up early. In some cases, you can forgive and move forward. In other cases it will just not be possible. Make sure to ask and to be confident. If you are not so sure about their commitment it can be a problem that never goes away.
6. Are your lifestyles compatible? You and your partner might have very different ideas in regards to the type of lifestyle you are after. This can lead to problems down the road. The best thing is to talk about it, understand how much each of you is willing to spend on an apartment for instance or other major expenses.
7. Do you have similar ambitions? You might find that what drives you in life is very different. This is totally fine of course but in some cases it should be brought into the open to make sure there are no fundamental conflicts. The earlier you check, the more likely you are to find a solution that works for both of you and makes your life together fun and enjoyable.
1: Is The Physical Attraction There? You might think they're a great person, but are you forcing yourself to be attracted to them? As much as we want to go beyond skin deep, physical attraction is vitally important in a relationship - and something you just can't fake.
2. Are you able to communicate effectively? In some cases the physical attraction is there and you are pushing forward with a relationship without stopping to ask yourself if this is really the type of person you can talk to and understand on a subtle level. While differences in style should not make you worry, you should look closely at the type of communication you have to make sure it is open and honest. If you don't feel it, it could present problems in the future.
3. Are your social needs similar? Couples usually engage in a common social life. Early in a relationship, it is important to look into your social needs to make sure they are somewhat similar to those of your partner. If you are very different in the types of activities and people you like to meet it can lead to a preference of experiencing your social life on your own and since relationships are all about sharing this could present problems in the future.
4. Do you believe in very different things? In some cases it won't be a problem but in others it can be very frustrating. You love your partner but are then introduced to a set of beliefs that is 180 degrees from yours. It could still work out for you, but it's always a good idea to check on religious and political principles to make sure you can stick around together for years to come.
5. Has your partner cheated on you? It is usually a good idea to open this up early. In some cases, you can forgive and move forward. In other cases it will just not be possible. Make sure to ask and to be confident. If you are not so sure about their commitment it can be a problem that never goes away.
6. Are your lifestyles compatible? You and your partner might have very different ideas in regards to the type of lifestyle you are after. This can lead to problems down the road. The best thing is to talk about it, understand how much each of you is willing to spend on an apartment for instance or other major expenses.
7. Do you have similar ambitions? You might find that what drives you in life is very different. This is totally fine of course but in some cases it should be brought into the open to make sure there are no fundamental conflicts. The earlier you check, the more likely you are to find a solution that works for both of you and makes your life together fun and enjoyable.
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Shaniyah Benson writes for online psychics website Asknow.com. Visit Asknow.com for free psychic readings and more.
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