Before I discovered how attraction works, I had many experiences where something I said or did literally made a woman make a disgusted face and walk away from me. I spent years seeing that awful look on their faces. But in the end it was worth it for me. Because I quickly grew sick of my situation and took drastic measures to figure out how attraction worked in women. I wanted to know what caused her to make that face and make sure I never made the same mistake again. Here are three things I learned that separate the guys who attract women and the guys who chase women...
1. You have to know how to tease a woman correctly. If you cannot playfully joke with a woman and do it right, then you will seem boring. If you can get her laughing and at the same time make her wonder whether she has lost her chance of being with you, then you are doing it right. A lot of guys think its about being a jerk to a woman. Its not. Its more about projecting mixed messages and still being funny at the same time. Teasing a woman is definitely an art.
2. Learn how to flirt with women correctly. Unfortunately most men are not naturally good at flirting. Men like to be straight-forward when they talk to women and this is why it often goes wrong. Flirting is about having multiple meanings in what you are saying in a conversation. If you talk to her like you would talk to your guy friends, her attraction for you will be mild at the very best. The secret is in communicating with her emotions rather than her intellect or logic. Flirting is the language of attraction. Learn it or suffer the consequences.
3. You MUST generate sexual tension with a woman if you ever want her to see you as a romantic interest. Yes, even if you want a long-term relationship. If you cannot build the emotion of sexual tension with a woman then she wont even give you the chance to get to know her in a deeper way. Sexual tension is rooted in creating something I call "perceived roadblocks" that you set up and remove at the right times. This creates a rollercoaster of emotions inside a woman and gets her dying to make out with you... and more.
These three things are vital to a woman's attraction. It's the difference in being her plutonic friend to being her passionate lover. Which one would you rather be?
1. You have to know how to tease a woman correctly. If you cannot playfully joke with a woman and do it right, then you will seem boring. If you can get her laughing and at the same time make her wonder whether she has lost her chance of being with you, then you are doing it right. A lot of guys think its about being a jerk to a woman. Its not. Its more about projecting mixed messages and still being funny at the same time. Teasing a woman is definitely an art.
2. Learn how to flirt with women correctly. Unfortunately most men are not naturally good at flirting. Men like to be straight-forward when they talk to women and this is why it often goes wrong. Flirting is about having multiple meanings in what you are saying in a conversation. If you talk to her like you would talk to your guy friends, her attraction for you will be mild at the very best. The secret is in communicating with her emotions rather than her intellect or logic. Flirting is the language of attraction. Learn it or suffer the consequences.
3. You MUST generate sexual tension with a woman if you ever want her to see you as a romantic interest. Yes, even if you want a long-term relationship. If you cannot build the emotion of sexual tension with a woman then she wont even give you the chance to get to know her in a deeper way. Sexual tension is rooted in creating something I call "perceived roadblocks" that you set up and remove at the right times. This creates a rollercoaster of emotions inside a woman and gets her dying to make out with you... and more.
These three things are vital to a woman's attraction. It's the difference in being her plutonic friend to being her passionate lover. Which one would you rather be?
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