Monday, December 21, 2009

What to Do When In Relationship Dating

By Oke Manueli

When two people or a group of people agree to assign a time and a place to meet up for a social activity - the act of agreeing is known as dating. Though the most common form of dating is as pairs, it is not unusual to date as a group for instance double dating.

If two people who are dating realizes that they are suitable for each other and their individual needs are satisfied or that they like each other more than as friends, then, dating can develop into a long term form of relationship (commonly understood by society when referred to as girl friend and boy friend relationship).

Dating each other while being in a relationship with each other is relationship dating. Relationship dating is however, quite different to dating and relates to two individuals being in a relationship.

In relationship dating, unlike in just dating, the purpose behind meeting up with the other person is not because you need to get to know them better to see whether they are suitable for each other, but to continue an already established relationship between two people, to greater heights.

When going on dates in a relationship dating stage, though the two people involved might be quite close to each other, a key purpose behind the date is to impress the other. Therefore, both men and women strive to find 'tips' to help them impress each other.

The most common tips for men in relationship dating are: being gentlemanly, never talking about earlier relationships, being on time, giving out compliments (for instance on their partner's appearance), making sure to arrange the date to be something that both you and your partner enjoys and making sure to ALWAYS pay the bills even if she offers to pay.

The most common tips for women in relationship dating include: though it is worthwhile getting late, since no one actually likes waiting for too long, always try to be on time for dates; be polite, never talk about your guy friends for too long or about previous relationships, give out one or two compliments (it's not only women who likes to hear something good about themselves), dress to be comfortable as well as look good because you don't want your date to be ruined because you don't feel good in your clothes and the most important thing is to enjoy the time spent together with your partner and appreciate the efforts he put forward, to make the date a success.

Finally, the most important tip that goes to both men and women in relationship dating is always being yourself... being honest and open and communicating properly, because in the end, both parties should like each other for who they really are.

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