Tuesday, December 8, 2009

End Dating Rejection With These 3 Critical Tips

By Chase Chandler

One makes that extra effort to be liked by the opposite sex. It is always nice to be appreciated by another person because one will feel special with this. Not wanting to blow up a chance for a second date, one will usually try his best to impress the girl on the first date. Every effort is done so that the first date will be perfect.

But not all things will be to your favor, and you may feel that you are on a bad streak. If you want to end dating rejection, this article will point out 3 important tips that can change your fate.

Tip # 1: Loving yourself first is the key. No one can actually expect positive things to happen outside, if he doesn't make changes on the inside first. What this means is that you should think positively and take out the negative thoughts. What this requires however is that you should love yourself first.

Being comfortable with who you are, you will not have to think whether other people approve of you. You simply don't care anymore because you are at peace with who you are and who you are not. If you love yourself, it will show. And your date will notice this when you talk and interact with her.

Tip No. 2: Be who you really are. Just be yourself and don't pretend to be someone you are not. Your date will easily notice a pretender, and you don't want this to happen. It will be a turn-off indeed. You don't have to impress her too much at the expense of being a turn-off. This will put you to a disadvantage.

You have to be yourself and be brave to let her decide whether she likes who you really are. Remember, you cant continue pretending all your life. So better let her know the real you early on to prevent things from getting complicated.

Tip 3: Listen to your date. Don't talk too much that may just leave her out with not much chance to share her thoughts. Learn to listen, and listen sincerely that is. Be genuinely interested with what she has to say. Give her the chance to express herself. Not only will you make her feel good, you will be able to get more information about her. So, to end dating rejection, love yourself first, be true to yourself and be genuinely interested with her.

All these 3 important tips will be your guide for successful dating. Dates going bad will be a thing in the past. You will find dating to be more enjoyable since you no longer pretend to be somebody you are not and you become more interested with your dates.

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