Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Tips On Healing A Broken Heart

By Jeremy Sullivan

When healing a broken heart it is advisable to allow yourself sufficient time to grieve. You need to express your emotions which may manifest as anger, fear, self pity or a bruised ego. Don't be afraid to cry or scream or punch pillows. This is not a sign of weakness but an important part of the healing process.

A change of setting is often a very good way to heal. If you can, take a vacation or at least go away for a few consecutive weekends. If you are not particularly attached to your residence you can think about moving and you can also think about a new job. You don't have to be this drastic, you can also consider joining a club or starting a new class just to put yourself in a new situation.

Getting enough exercise can go a long way to helping you heal your broken heart. By keeping physically fit you may find that you are more self confident and the endorphins that your body will release as a result of energetic movement will also help you feel better naturally.

One of the worse things you can do if you are trying to heal a broken heart is to turn into a recluse. You may not feel like seeing people especially if your broken heart is coupled with humiliation. However, too much time too yourself will just enable you to nurse bad feelings and your broken heart may quickly turn into depression. Spend time with friends and loved ones and share with them what you are going through. A problem shared is a problem halved and you will soon find yourself on the road to recovery.

Life is a journey and you must continue with it in order to reach your destiny. Your life has a purpose and the purpose is a good one. Everything happens for a reason and whatever caused your broken heart was meant to make you a stronger person. Healing a broken heart is best achieved over time which is truly the best healer. You will get better but always remain positive so that healing can take place in your life.

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