Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Knowing If Your Relationship Will Still Work With an Ex

By Taylor Hawk

Humans don't like to be alone that is why they want to have relationship with others. This helps them cope up with their lives and reverse the loneliness they can feel. Boy and girl knows each other until they become friends then lovers.

This is the nature of humans. Though conflicts happens and in the ever changing world, lovers parted ways. Even if there are varying reasons, one of the two in the relationship will definitely lose. And this scenario really happens.

But humans are strong and can cope with those losses though some times, individuals are left to carry the burden of break up making it difficult for them to stand up. Worst, some remains fateful to the idea that it is easy to win their ex lover and makes relentless attempt up to the point of being foolish or martyr.

On the other hand, some are successful, and some aren't especially if the idea doesn't appeal to a former lover in relation to their best interests thus, making counter-efforts to reject and deny such approaches.

What are the indications that an ex is still attached to you? First, one should be keen enough to observe an ex' behaviors. Take careful note of his behavior based on your knowledge about him since you started the relationship.

What could be the signs that an ex is still into you? For one, the person should be very keen and observant of the behavior of an ex towards him or her. One should take careful note of how he behaves based on how well he or she knows him from the times that they've been together.

It's normal for an ex-lover to make occasional glances towards the person they used to be with since the fact that the other person DID became part of their lives up to some extent remains. The difference however, between a person who still wants to get back with an ex and someone who's just civil is different and one will know this through the frequency of such glances and numerous instances mostly tells it all.

Keeping gifts from old lover is normal for individuals because it is a sign of treasuring moments. Most would like to keep them like that but wearing some of them such as wallets, bags and more can signal an attachment to ex lover.

When someone constantly think and talk about an ex, it could also indicate that the person is still into the previous lover. It may also come to a point of depression when he or she discovers that his or her ex lover was with someone already and was able to move on.

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