You can avoid a breakup with your lover if you are aware of the warning signs. There are some similar symptoms of trouble that can be observed in all relationships.
1) You are being ignored by your partner.
Not talking with each other is not the only thing. If your partner is ignorant about you and your feelings, it's like those two ships at night that just pass by each other. So probably now is the time to take a closer look at your love life.
Pause and think why you are being ignored? Did you forget your partner's birthday or probably some other important event? Have you stopped being loving off late? May be they are feeling neglected by you? They could be reacting to something else that took place. It could be your lover's perception of the situation, but for the sake of love you have to keep them happy and be understanding.
You can discuss the issue nicely at a surprise meal also that you can plan for them. The reason for their being grumpy can be taken up now, but please don't word it like that. The problem might not be related to your relationship at all and could be different. Try to talk, because at times the communication might not be ideal in a relationship. But it could result into anything.
2) Your partner does not want to go out with you and does not want to see you also.
It should be treated as a red warning signal, if your lover suddenly starts becoming unavailable or is too busy for you. You have to find out the reason for such avoidance behavior. Stop being a doormat or for that matter a bedmat! There should not be an excuse for avoiding your boyfriend or girlfriend or trying to find out the reason for this behavior. These signals should not be ignored come what may, or you might just get a breakup letter.
3) Distance is being maintained by your partner in the bedroom
Big problems can be caused by this small three lettered word- sex. Couples who have spent considerable amount of time together can be witness to this. Lovemaking can be affected by lives problems and issues. Also, that the initial wild attraction with sex does not last forever and so if one is not lovemaking regularly is ok at times. But if one is not intimate for months then it is a problem. These shared emotions and feelings are strong binders actually. So the strength of a hug or a cuddle should not be undermined.
Your partner's happiness and sadness must be known to you. Although sometimes their behavior will not be because of any of your reactions, but it's a strong indication of some trouble boiling up. Be more careful towards these signals of a breakup. Or be ready to be single again and then you have all the time to analyze the reasons for it.
1) You are being ignored by your partner.
Not talking with each other is not the only thing. If your partner is ignorant about you and your feelings, it's like those two ships at night that just pass by each other. So probably now is the time to take a closer look at your love life.
Pause and think why you are being ignored? Did you forget your partner's birthday or probably some other important event? Have you stopped being loving off late? May be they are feeling neglected by you? They could be reacting to something else that took place. It could be your lover's perception of the situation, but for the sake of love you have to keep them happy and be understanding.
You can discuss the issue nicely at a surprise meal also that you can plan for them. The reason for their being grumpy can be taken up now, but please don't word it like that. The problem might not be related to your relationship at all and could be different. Try to talk, because at times the communication might not be ideal in a relationship. But it could result into anything.
2) Your partner does not want to go out with you and does not want to see you also.
It should be treated as a red warning signal, if your lover suddenly starts becoming unavailable or is too busy for you. You have to find out the reason for such avoidance behavior. Stop being a doormat or for that matter a bedmat! There should not be an excuse for avoiding your boyfriend or girlfriend or trying to find out the reason for this behavior. These signals should not be ignored come what may, or you might just get a breakup letter.
3) Distance is being maintained by your partner in the bedroom
Big problems can be caused by this small three lettered word- sex. Couples who have spent considerable amount of time together can be witness to this. Lovemaking can be affected by lives problems and issues. Also, that the initial wild attraction with sex does not last forever and so if one is not lovemaking regularly is ok at times. But if one is not intimate for months then it is a problem. These shared emotions and feelings are strong binders actually. So the strength of a hug or a cuddle should not be undermined.
Your partner's happiness and sadness must be known to you. Although sometimes their behavior will not be because of any of your reactions, but it's a strong indication of some trouble boiling up. Be more careful towards these signals of a breakup. Or be ready to be single again and then you have all the time to analyze the reasons for it.
About the Author:
You can learn more about this and the other Immediate Reconnect Strategies to get your ex back in a book about How To Get Your Love Back In One Day. Hans S Delane teaches relationship and emotional intelligence courses and you can get the free course Get Your Ex Back Now here at Love Advice Secrets.
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