Thursday, December 24, 2009

When Moving On Is The Best Option

By T Dub Jackson

Trying to preserve the friendship and companionship in a relationship that has turned bitter can worsen things in that manner. To be nice to someone who once owned your heart is a big risk for your own emotions. Making up is good if the relationship is worth fighting for, but what if it's not? Being in love yesterday doesn't mean being in love today and tomorrow. To stay in love with your ex doesn't mean he's still into you, too.

How can one determine if it's time to say goodbye to someone? Being hopeful in an unsuccessful relationship can make or break a person.

Would you Choose Making Up Over Making Out?

Some people's way of making up after a fight is through making out. Although this is kind of weird for most of us, many couples end up having steamy sex after a huge fight in order to fill their bills. But what is wrong here is that some of them has to fight first in order to get in the mood. They rely their appetite to arguing which isn't healthy at all.

How Long has it been since You've made Plans Together?

I'm not talking about plans to go to the kids dance recital or dinner at your parents. I'm talking about plans for the after the kids graduate and move out. Have you talked about where things are going down the road or can you even see past one day at a time? There's something to be said for living in the moment but when you're building a life together you should be looking to the future with one another as well.

Do You Tell Each Other Your Dreams and Aspirations?

How long is too long for the person you plan to share your life with? Have you ever shared things about you to someone you want to be with for the rest of your life? It's really a big relief and contentment if you share your life and your future with someone who shares the same ideals ans aspirations with you.

Unfortunately, not all of us have the luck to be with someone whom we can share our life with. It is better to be alone than to have someone who will eventually take your dreams away from you.

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