Seduction is a wonderful game. This involves employing some amount of touching to get the girl interested. Picking up a girl is difficult without having first established mutual tactility. This is one of the great challenges when picking up women--since not all will not respond positively and may not even be open to your touching. How does one approach a girl to establish physical closeness without making the girl too uncomfortable?
Usually, men will just proceed on without taking into consideration whether the girls are already freaking out with their aggressive attempts to physical closeness.
With the concern of appearing disrespectful to girls, some men will not proceed on establishing physical closeness. This situation, though generally safe, may also become a double-edge sword in some cases. The girl will either think that the man is not that interested or she may think the man is too timid to initiate action. Either way, men will not fair well in the eyes of the girls. How do men proceed then?
In order to not appear disrespectful to girls, here are a few basic procedures you can follow. This allows you to appear confident and being able to get away with some casual, relaxed physical contact. In this way, the girls will not feel cheap with your approach since you are respecting their personal boundaries as well.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But thats simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something.
The outside of a womans arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time its a clear-cut sign that youre a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Dont be afraid to give it a try " youll notice the benefits immediately.
2. When you are already talking to her, you can hit it up a notch and proceed with appropriate casual touching. This maintains that bond and increases physical attraction between both parties. You can't imagine how powerful this technique is. So employ it with caution and finesse. Proceed by using what is called Stealth Tactility to be more effective.
Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesnt know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. As a last point, always end a conversation with a close physical contact. You can do this after exchanging numbers or saying goodbye. Give her a kiss on the cheek as you go.
Many men think that the hard works been done once somethings been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.
Usually, men will just proceed on without taking into consideration whether the girls are already freaking out with their aggressive attempts to physical closeness.
With the concern of appearing disrespectful to girls, some men will not proceed on establishing physical closeness. This situation, though generally safe, may also become a double-edge sword in some cases. The girl will either think that the man is not that interested or she may think the man is too timid to initiate action. Either way, men will not fair well in the eyes of the girls. How do men proceed then?
In order to not appear disrespectful to girls, here are a few basic procedures you can follow. This allows you to appear confident and being able to get away with some casual, relaxed physical contact. In this way, the girls will not feel cheap with your approach since you are respecting their personal boundaries as well.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But thats simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something.
The outside of a womans arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time its a clear-cut sign that youre a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Dont be afraid to give it a try " youll notice the benefits immediately.
2. When you are already talking to her, you can hit it up a notch and proceed with appropriate casual touching. This maintains that bond and increases physical attraction between both parties. You can't imagine how powerful this technique is. So employ it with caution and finesse. Proceed by using what is called Stealth Tactility to be more effective.
Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesnt know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. As a last point, always end a conversation with a close physical contact. You can do this after exchanging numbers or saying goodbye. Give her a kiss on the cheek as you go.
Many men think that the hard works been done once somethings been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.
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