Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Has She Heard The 100% Totally Free Online Dating Service

By Jason Watts

There is a 100% totally free online dating service; no membership fees for you to try to meet that special someone. You can have some coin for for popcorn when you take her out to the movie house. I recall back when the earth was still cooling prior to online services were so pervasive for that matter when people met people through the newspaper. The dating service was found on the classified page under the category of personal ads.

It started out filling one page but then it took off and had five or six pages of small classified ads of people listing their personal details, height, weight, age, what they like to do. It was like what online services have now but back then there were no photos just descriptions in print.

It was free to run your ad in this newspaper. If you wanted to respond to an ad you had to pay per the telephone minute. It was a 900 number system.

You would read an ad that caught your fancy and then call the 900 number listed by the newspaper and then punch in the number of the ad that you read about to hear a message from the person who took out the ad. Then you had the chance to leave your message and your telephone number and wait for the person to call you back. I got wise to the system pretty quickly.

Of course the newspaper would want people to leave long drawn out individual messages to as many ad placers as possible to run up the meter. But I came up with a standard message that worked well for me. I would call and leave a message like this: Hi I am Fred (not my real name, but I did leave my real name), I am a good looking 33 year old attorney who is searching for a young and attractive young lady who is full of life and enjoys being spoiled...

Believe it or not I cannot remember the whole message I used to leave. But that was the core of it, and it worked for me. My call was returned by almost every girl I left that message for. And because it was the same message I was able to keep my telephone bill to a minimum. The part that got the girl to call back was the part about spoiling them.

It did not hurt that I was an attorney. Women equate lawyers with a whole lot of money. Although I have never seen a lot of coind as an attorney. But they liked the spoiling part because women want to know what you want to do for them. They do not care what you want.

I do not participate in the internet dating game although there is 100% totally free online dating service available. Not my thing anymore. But if I did I would play it the same. Tell the girls what they want to hear. They want to hear what is in it for them to call you back.

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